Monday Musings – Spending Habits

As everyone knows, the economy has been taking a hit over the past year.  Jobs are scarce and companies are hurting.  The economic downturn has affected everyone, with the exception of maybe a few industries. Because of this, the CPA and I have had numerous discussions about what this means for us and our future family.

These discussions usually occur after a hard day at the office where I had to handle another termination or explain to someone why their pay was cut.  As the HR Manager at my office, it’s been my unfortunate duty to try to help employees make sense of what’s happening.  This is difficult to do when there is no easy answer and no ready solution.  It doesn’t help to regularly see major corporations such as Panasonic (15,000 jobs), General Motors (10,000 jobs), and Nissan (20,000 jobs) conduct extensive lay-offs.  

It’s enough to make most of us concerned, if not downright worried.  So concerned, in fact, that the husband and I have talked about our worst case scenario.  You know, what would happen if both of us (or one of us) lost our jobs.  How long would our savings last?  Would we lose our home, would we have to move somewhere else, etc.?  These are scary thoughts, but unfortunately they could be realistic ones.  So we’ve talked about what we would do without if we had to.  I’m guessing our cable would go (very sad, but manageable), there would be no more dining out (not too much of a problem these days), and we’d stop all of our extra spending on unnecessary items.  After that, who knows?  We’d have to take a serious look at our Internet usage (oh, the horror) and eventually, we would probably have to move.  A lot of things in our lives would be affected of course, and it could be really challenging.  

While we definitely don’t like to think about it, maybe it’s best to plan now in the event something happens. In fact, I recently took a part-time job as a dog-walker so that I could earn some extra cash to pay off bills.  It’s not much, a dog walk here and there doesn’t contribute a lot, but every bit does count and it feels like I’m at least doing something.  

Because there’s not a lot that one can do but wait and hope the economy improves.  I figure that at the very least, the current economic environment has caused us to take a hard look at our finances and has made us more aware of our spending habits.  And if that’s the worst that happens, we’ll consider ourselves very lucky indeed.  And if it isn’t, well, we’ll find a way to make it through just like everyone else does.  

How has the economic downturn affected you?  Have your spending habits changed?  



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Julie - February 16, 2009 - 6:20 am

We’re down to not buying anything that isn’t necessary. I have our grocery bill down to about $200 a month by shopping sales only and using coupons. It takes a lot of extra effort to look up sales and search for coupons and go to different stores instead of just one or two but it makes a difference. And since I have to drive through a little town with a couple of stores I shop at to get to the bigger town with Wal-Mart, Big Lots, and a couple grocery stores within a half a mile of each other, I’m not spending any extra gas. But if anyone needs tips on “rubbing two pennies together and making a dime” as my father says, just send me a message through my blog.

The one thing that we do have as a concern is Matt wants to go to truck driving school. He already has his permit and the school is only 4 weeks long. It’s $6,000 though. But they do job placement at the end so he would have a job straight out of school.

I could go on and on but I won’t hijack your blog. I promise. :)

The Wife of Odie - February 16, 2009 - 7:18 am

We’re definitely trying to be careful with our spending, but we were doing that before the economy was bad. I think it’s important to watch your spending irregardless of what the ecomony is like. Life, to me, is so much happier when I am being frugal and saving. I love shopping, but when I can actually NOT buy something I want it’s an amazing feeling.

Briony - February 16, 2009 - 7:30 am

I’ve been blessed, the company I work for has had a steady flow of work so far so I haven’t seen much of a cut in hours. But if work slows down I would be the first creative to be cut back. Our office manager already only comes in 2days a week…so she is feeling it.
I’ve been doing side jobs to help me pay off student loans and all my bills and I’ve cut back on going out to eat and my lovely visits to starbucks…those $4 expresso truffles add up :)
I am just trying to be wise with my money, and like you plan for the future.

the weakonomist - February 16, 2009 - 7:52 am

The Sheconomist and I have all but eliminated going out to eat. As the time draws nearer to our wedding she also wants me to spend less, because now she pictures the money in my account as the money in OUR account. I couldn’t be more proud.

Because I’ve always lived like a cheap-skate, I have done little to cut back because of the economy. We’ll see what happens in the coming months, hopefully an uptick in the health of our economy.

Eryn - February 16, 2009 - 7:57 am

When we moved to Virginia, we assumed that my husband would be able to find a better job fairly quickly.

Enter the recession.

It certainly has not been so.

My dad owns a small business here in Richmond and he is hurting, big time. In the last month he has gone from 160 employees to under 100 employees.

Kristina - February 16, 2009 - 9:16 am

My husband’s hours have been cut back at work to 30 hours a week, until things pick up. He works at a clinical researcxh company, and the studies aren’t as fruitfal as they were. So, we have had to cut back, mostly on shopping, and not putting as much towards our debt every month.

Ali - February 16, 2009 - 9:31 am

We’ve cut our spending down dramatically, but I was a big over-spender before. I’ve been trying to buy lots of our kids books at Thrift stores, spend less at grocery stores (almost exclusively the meats and produce sections), make my lattes at home, and lots of other things (see blogs! lol). Granted, however, things aren’t as bad here in Canada, and we’re in a bit of a bubble with the 2010 Olympics coming to our city soon…

We’re cutting so much so that I can stay home more with the kids, and spend as much time with them while they’re young as possible. And to homeschool, which we’re LOVING so far (says me who is sitting in my Jammies still at 8:30am!). AND we’re cutting “extras” so that we can travel this year. Too many stories lately of people our age leaving this world – we want to make the most of every minute we’re given together as a whole family.

You crunch a lot of numbers when married to a CPA, no?!? Haha. We have very similar conversations, I’m sure!

Robynn's Ravings - February 16, 2009 - 9:41 am

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Mindee - February 16, 2009 - 10:05 am

Rarely is home decorating so simple. Congratulations. And I love you bowl o’ knick knacks.

Mindee - February 16, 2009 - 10:12 am

Um, that’s what I get for having too many browser windows open at once. That comment was for Liz. YOUR comment is:

It hasn’t . . . yet. Our state is fairly insulated form economic highs and lows. Bad news when house values everywhere else were soaring, good news now. But we’re having the same conversations you are and not even contemplating replacing the old car because we don’t want to be stuck with a monthly payment we can’t afford if the worst happens.

Courtney - February 16, 2009 - 10:29 am

I find myself spending more time at my parent’s house where there are more there are more people to benefit the use of a heater, whereas it’s just me at my place. So I turn the heater way down low when I’m gone. I also weasle my way into eating dinner there frequently, therefore less groceries for me to buy. And to avoid spending money when I shouldn’t be spending, I just avoid stores like Target.

Sabrina - February 16, 2009 - 11:01 am

I find myself more aware of what I spend but am trying not to cut back too much. It seems like a viscious cycle of the less we spend, the more impact on the businesses, who then suffer and have to lay more people off and so on and so on. I think it’s important for those who have not been affected as much financially to not panic and stop spending, because in the end that just creates more problems for everyone. The economy needs the flow of money to start the turnaround albeit a slow process.

erin - February 16, 2009 - 12:04 pm

We have been very careful about our spending, more so lately than usual. DH and I are lucky in that though I am not a good saver, I get very nervous about spending money, which tempers his impulses. My job is pretty secure thankfully, DH actually just got a (tiny) raise, and we are getting a pretty hefty tax refund (to be used to pay off his car, yay!) and DH can change his withholding to bring home quite a bit more in his paycheck, so we are actually feeling okay at the moment. We just have to keep fighting the good fight. :)

M to T&T&A&D - February 16, 2009 - 12:07 pm

You hit on a subject that is on everyone’s mind and hitting all our purses. The cop and I have made a concerted effort to curb our expenditures. We’ve been working on getting our bills paid off. It’s worrisome thinking how all the banks are raising the interest on bills and often without any notification to you before they do so. We’re staying home lots more for movies and Wii and enjoying doing so and that’s a great side effect of all this. I hope it is strengthening families and relationships – it sure is for us.

I’ve discovered that you can only do all that you know to do after discussing with your family and mate then exercise faith to get you through what the coming days, months and years hold for us individually and as a nation. We can’t get stressed out but be prudent in all our money matters. In the worst case scenario, there are several things we’d immediately cut, cable, change our grocery and menus to cut waste, curb our driving to conserve expenditures on gas and several other things.

“If you are prepared, ye shall not fear” keeps me going.

the domestic fringe - February 16, 2009 - 12:24 pm

We too have talked about this a lot lately. Fortunately or unfortunately, we’ve lived on a LOT less, so cutting back doesn’t terrify us. It’s just something we don’t want to have to do again. It’s not impossible to live on next to nothing, just not as comfortable. With our nations financial situation as it is, I figure it’s only a matter of time before we are seriously affected. Cable would be the first thing to go for me and honestly I’d almost be happy.

-FringeGirl

John von Cannon - February 16, 2009 - 1:18 pm

I breezed thru the comments and didn’t find what I was looking for. The following is not really an answer to the question presented, but instead, thoughts to ponder! In preparation for the worst, I strongly suggest every one work hard to store at least three (3) months of food, water, and savings (albeit cash on hand in a safe place where no one knows or a site you feel is secured–be careful) While this may last only 3 months-it could make the difference between keeping one’s home or not. I recently heard the comment–spend only money you have! In other words–now is not the time to build cc debt! And if you already have more than one credit card, pay off the higher interest one first! My 2 cents–uh–make that 1 cent (inflation factored in).

Joanna - February 16, 2009 - 2:06 pm

We haven’t changed much. My husband’s pay was cut 10% recently, but as we were already living below our means, it has affected our savings more than anything else. Which isn’t great, but manageable. Basically, we reviewed our budget and aren’t planning on using his vacation time to actually travel anywhere this year which will affect/disappoint our parents much more than it worries us!

Briony - February 16, 2009 - 3:02 pm

thanks for the sweet comments. the lens i used was the Canon 50mm 1.8, it’s my new fave! i love it :)

Sarah - February 16, 2009 - 6:59 pm

We’ve been lucky so far in that we’ve always been frugal. It started out when we met because we were poor college students without any money and it continued because we wanted to save money for a wedding or for a house or for a baby. We’re also lucky in that my job is pretty secure. So we haven’t had to cut corners because we didn’t have any corners to cut. But if my husband lost his job, he’d need to find another one within the year or we’d be up a creek lol. Has it affected you guys yet?

MommyAmy - February 16, 2009 - 7:46 pm

Thankfully Hubs has a pretty recession proof job, but we’re taking our spending habits down a notch anyway. We’re limiting our date nights, I’m cooking a lot more thrifty meals, and we’ve switch to bargain diapers.

Jill - February 16, 2009 - 7:57 pm

My husband is actually a military officer, so we are fortunate in that his job is/has been pretty secure. However, he will be getting out of the service later this year–and that really worries me. He has a lot of skills, a security clearance, and all that…but the job market is a scary thing right now. I think I worry enough for the both of us. Anyway–to answer your original question–we haven’t changed our habits a ton, but I have been sticking it out in a much-less-than-desirable job situation…whereas if things were different I might have chosen a different path and given up awhile ago.

Spring girl - February 16, 2009 - 8:22 pm

I’m blessed that my parents taught me frugal living, so we have some financial insulation. Yes, we’re cheapskates, but we turn it into a game, so it has never been a burden. If we find a 2-4-1 deal for a restaurant we joke that that is where we are going for our anniversary. Generally we have picnics in pretty places for anniversaries though, because they are so much more memorable than dinner at a restaurant. I also play with my family the game of ‘how much would you expect to pay for this’ when I get something for $2 at a garage sale or flee market. And bargain furniture that can be done up provides an outlet for my creativity, so I love it. It’s the tacky ‘silver lining’ stuff, but I prefer to think of it is enjoying the little things.

Gennaro - February 17, 2009 - 1:53 am

I don’t think there are many who are not having similar discussions. This downturn has influences every social group on each economic level. I look at it in terms of shifting resources to the things that are most important and that bring the most happiness. Keeping the savings growing is vital, but so is supporting some of our favorite businesses. If not, many may not survive.

Alzo - February 17, 2009 - 4:41 am

Your thoughts are certainly timely, and based on all these other comments, these are things that most people are experiencing. Let’s hope and pray that things do not get worse and the economy begins to turn around soon. So far, I have been really fortunate, but it seems clear that no one except those in their 70s and 80s have seen anything like this before.

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