Growing Pains (Part III) – The Beginning of A New Adventure

The year was 1994 and I was about to embark on a new adventure.  I was prepared to move out West, at least I felt like I was.  I had worked and saved and changed for the past year and I was ready for this experience.  “This” being the mission that I was going to serve for my church.  I had been asked to go to Temple Square in Salt Lake City, Utah.  So I agreed and I packed my bags – both of them.  Because I would be moving around, I had to fit everything I owned into two bags, which by itself was a huge feat.

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I remember how it felt to say goodbye to my family for what would be an 18 month absence.  When you think about it, that’s a pretty long time to not see someone, especially if you’re used to seeing them every day.  In the days before leaving, we had parties and get-togethers and family outings, and everything we could fit in.  And finally the moment  arrived.

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This was in the early 90s, before the days of tight security, so the entire group was able to come all the way to the airport gate with me to say goodbye.  It’s almost laughable now, but at the time, these kind of farewell rituals were pretty commonplace.  At least it was for those of us who would be gone for a year and a half.

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After many hugs, a few tears and some “I love you’s” I was on my way.

plane-leaving

Five hours later, I set foot on Utah soil for the first time.  My aunt and her family had graciously offered a place for me to stay for the few days I had before I was due to report at the Missionary Training Center in Provo, Utah.  Part of that offer included being picked up from the airport.  As was normal in that part of the country, it was snowing at the time.  For Utah natives, it was just another winter day, but for a Southern-born-and-raised-girl, it was glorious.  I had never seen such snow – it was everywhere and it was inches deep!

snow-falling

This was the first of many surprises that awaited me during my journey.  The next was my stay at the MTC.   I don’t know if you can see the look of fear on my face in this picture taken when I arrived, but I was definitely feeling it.

checking-in

I spent six weeks at the MTC studying and memorizing tours and scripts that I would need at Temple Square.  I also spent that time wondering what I had gotten myself into.  I was excited to be there, don’t get me wrong, but I was nervous too.  One of the rules was that we were to be with our “companion,” or person they assigned to us, at all times.  It’s a safety thing.  But it was a little difficult to adjust to at first.

companion

Gone were the days of doing whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted.  Instead, there were schedules to follow and guidelines to adhere to.

Thankfully, all of this was made made easier by the friends that I met.

group-photo

missionaries

Before I knew it, the six weeks were up and it was time to go on to my assigned area:  Temple Square in Salt Lake City.  Unlike the missionaries who were traveling to far-away places such as Australia and Japan, we only had a short 45 minute bus ride to our final destination.

And suddenly we were there.  The place that was to be my home for the next 14 months.

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It was unlike any place I had ever been.  Temple Square is 10-acre plot of land surrounded by granite walls.  One of the main buildings, of course, is the Temple which you can see from miles around as its spires tower over the surrounding buildings.

temple

Then there’s the Tabernacle, home of the famous Mormon Tabernacle Choir.   (I apologize for the quality of the photos – this was in 1994, long before the days of digital photography.)

tabernacle

There was also the North and the South Visitors Centers.

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As well as the Joseph Smith Memorial Building across the street, which was home to the Family Search Center (where visitors could come and do genealogy work).

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These buildings would be my home for next year and a half.  It was a beautiful place and I was excited to be there.  It was the beginning of a new adventure, one that I was glad to be on.  Now if I could just figure out what I was doing…

Now for the question of the day: What were you doing in 1994?  (You may have to think hard about this one, I know I did.)

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joy - April 21, 2009 - 5:50 am

In 1994 I was getting ready to leave my job as a reporter for a small daily newspaper in Hawaii and returning to school to get my teaching degree. I decided it was time for me to leave my home state and venture to the mainland. I moved to Las Vegas, NV and spent 10 years there. I finished my degree and, ironically, I decided I did not want to teach high school. I worked as an administrative assistant up to an operations manager. I worked briefly on a masters degree and was able to teach a college class which I enjoyed immensely.

Amy - April 21, 2009 - 6:04 am

If we assume April 94, I just turned 13 years old. I was in 7th grade. So school, family, friends and church probably took up all my time.

If memory serves it was 94 that Kurt Cobain died, I remember being surprised that my cousins didn’t even know who he was. It was huge news at the time. I’m impressed I remember it so well, now that I’ve connected my age to it.

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The Wife of Odie - April 21, 2009 - 6:08 am

I loved this post. And I loved your mission. It changed me. Really. And in 1994 I was sadly in that photo above looking awful. I don’t know if I can ever forgive you for posting that…

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Sandy - April 21, 2009 - 6:27 am

Awww your blog reminds me of my daughter serving on Temple Square! She loved it so. BTW–I like your curly hair!
Well, 1994–a very sad and at times a very difficult time in my life. That seems like it was forever ago. I had just gotten divorced after 13 years of marriage in late ’93. I had 5 children to raise alone, ages 1yr to 12yrs. I was working hanging wall paper for my Dad as he built houses. I would take my 1 year old with me during the day when the other kids were in school, I put him on a blanket and he would play. I remembered how good that he was while I was working. I had my own home, I was here in Alabama, I had a great family support and a wonderful Ward. I couldn’t have made it without the blessings of our Heavenly Father and our Savior!
Not sure if you saw my comment from yesterday, but I had asked what was yesterday’s picture of in the photo of the day?
Have a great day Tabitha!

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Geneil - April 21, 2009 - 6:56 am

Very nice post, Tabitha. In 1994 I was doing much the same thing I’m doing now–living in Indianapolis, freelancing, and raising my family. Except my boys were 6 and 2 and my daughter was not even born. Now my oldest is 15 months into his mission in Sweden. A mission is a great thing.

emilyG - April 21, 2009 - 6:57 am

I was 7 years old! And that was the year my sister was born.

Bwahahaha.

Okay, who feels old? Not me!

:]

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M to T&D&D&A&T - April 21, 2009 - 7:18 am

1994 was a wonderful year….our daughter on her mission, missing her SO much but at the same time was SO proud of her and loved her all the more for her willingness to step away from the “known” of family and places to another time and place to serve others by her example and love of the gospel. Our lives richly blessed by her service and it changed our family. It made us spiritually stronger and her mission was a wonderful example to her brothers and sister. I remember 1994 being a year of growth, love and new understanding of the eternal perspective of life and what is really important to each of us, family and being together forever!!!

admin - April 21, 2009 - 7:28 am

Joy – wow, sounds like you really did a lot around that time! And that’s quite a move too, from hawaii to Vegas!

Amy – interesting that you mention that because I remember that very well too for some reason. It was shortly before I left and the news was played all the time on the radio.

WofO – awww… you don’t like that picture? But you’re so cute in it! Love the glasses. :)

Sandy – thanks, it’s naturally curly and back then it was a little wild! Big hair was in, although I’m not sure why. Wow, sounds like you really were going through a challenging time. I’m glad you made it through okay! oh, and yesterday’s picture is of some stairs that is part of a fountain. We went to a place called Hillwood in DC this weekend and the fountain was located in the rose garden on the estate. It was beautiful!

Geneil – that’s so cool! Sweden, oh, does he just love it? I would think it would be such a great place to go as it’s so beautiful. How’s he doing with the language?

Emily – ha! YOU feel old? What about the rest of us? :)

M to TDDAT – so sweet! I’m glad it was a good year for you too!

Catherine - April 21, 2009 - 7:31 am

Oh jeeze I was a but a baby in 1994. I believe I was still in elementary school learning my times table, cursive handwriting, and the states and all of their capitals. Go you for being so brave and striking out on your own for such a long time

Jill - April 21, 2009 - 7:54 am

Oh yikes…in April 1994, I was 10, almost 11 years old. I was in 5th grade and have no idea how I survived that year. I hit a boy across the face with a STACK of textbooks, but in my defense, I warned him to leave me alone. Fortunately I have learned other ways to cope nowadays LOL :)

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Mindee@ourfrontdoor - April 21, 2009 - 7:58 am

You totally rocked the curly hair Tabitha. I think they picked you for that mission because you look like a poster child for wholesome living. :)

1994 – trying (and finally succeeding) to get pregnant.

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Janet - April 21, 2009 - 7:59 am

I was 28. My boys were six and three and I thought they would never grow up. I was 10 years out of high school and left my husband and sons at home in California to go off to Kansas alone to attend the reunion of my class. I don’t regret the trip one bit but for all the confusion about the what-if’s and some of the people and the life I left behind there, I wish the trip had been MUCH shorter!

My 25th reunion is this June and I will not be making the trip back to Junction City this time. What’s done is done and that chapter of my life is over. I’ve done/helped all I could.

1994 was also the year Kurt Cobain killed himself. I loved a lot (not all) of his music and was sad to see him go.

Hadn’t thought a lot about 1994 specifically, but as I prepare to leave for Georgia to see Brandon graduate from Army Basic Training, I think a lot about how quickly 28-43 for me and six to twenty-one went for him. I miss him. It’s true what they say… The hardest thing you will EVER do as a parent is let go.

Thanks for this post!

Janet

Sarah @ BecomingSarah.com - April 21, 2009 - 8:18 am

I was still living at home, going to school, and that was the year of El Nino. Everything in southern California flooded, and I do mean EVERYTHING. We stacked sandbags for weeks around community centers and schools and the like.

Okay, other people stacked sandbags. I watched.

admin - April 21, 2009 - 8:25 am

Catherine – Elementary school, awww… And you just reminded me that I never took geography in school. Unfortunately, it has come back to haunt me.

Jill – that explains a lot! (just kidding)

Mindee – well, congrats are in order, way over due of course. And yes, the curly hair was unfortunate. It’s funny because I always thought the hair made me look wild and carefree. Apparently not. :)

Janet – how interesting, you’re the second person to mention Kurt Cobain. I remember that too. I’m glad you get to go see your son graduate, be sure to take lots of pictures of him in his uniform! And yes, I know from what my mom tells me, that letting go is hard. I know it wasn’t easy for her to have me leave for so long but like you said, I guess that’s a part of being a parent.

Sarah – I think I remember that, the flooding. I definitely remember El Nino though. Was it really that long ago? I was thinking it was just a few years back. Man!!

Jana - April 21, 2009 - 8:35 am

I was in High School and just 4 years away from my own Temple Square Mission.

Kristina - April 21, 2009 - 8:36 am

Look at that amazing hair! How tall are you? You look taller than most of the Sisters. I’m a tall girl too!

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Liz - April 21, 2009 - 8:40 am

Ahhh… 1994. I was in middle school, listening to Boys II Men and pining away for a boy named Jeremy. Not quite the adventure you were having. That building is such an amazing piece of architecture, and I LOVE the pics of your hair. :) So cute.

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Sabrina - April 21, 2009 - 8:56 am

Let’s see…..in 1994, I was enjoying new motherhood with my
7 month old son. Wow, how time flies!

Helena - April 21, 2009 - 9:19 am

Oh, 1994 was one of my favourite years! :-)

I was 19 and my first boyfriend and I had just broken up so I enjoyed the unusually (for Sweden) hot summer of -94 with my girlfriends going clubbing and partying. And we spent evenings and nights sitting outside in various gardens watching the soccer World Cup that was played in USA this year (we came third). One of my best summers ever!

admin - April 21, 2009 - 9:21 am

Jana – that’s right, you served there too. What a small world this is!

Kristina – I’m 5’9″. So not that tall really, I just think everyone happened to be shorter than me. :)

Liz – Boyz to Men. I still have one of their cds if you can believe it! Ha, that curly hair, it was so out of control!!

Sabrina – awww… so sweet!

Helena – I’m glad you have such good memories of that year. I love how sometimes we can see a picture or hear a song and immediately be transported back to a particular time or event in our lives. Amazing, isn’t it?

Joanna - April 21, 2009 - 9:37 am

I met my husband that year :) 1994 was good to me :P

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the doemstic fringe - April 21, 2009 - 10:04 am

Wow, 1994…that does require some thinking. I was in my second year of college in Florida. Going to college in Florida seemed like such a great idea after growing up in NY. I had never lived anywhere else and was amazed by so many things in the South. It was a different world.

-FringeGirl

Serene - April 21, 2009 - 10:41 am

LOL! I LOVE your hair!! Its awesome! And I’m quite jealous of the color.

1994, I was 10 years old, I was being homeschooled, and I had just landed my first job working for a lady in my ward doing yard work for her. I was so excited to be making my own money! From that point on I always had a job doing either yard work or house cleaning till I moved to Utah to go to BYU when I was 17 years old.

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Angela - April 21, 2009 - 12:23 pm

1994 – assuming April 1994 – I was 6 months into my marriage – living in the “land” of and working at UVA. We hadn’t purchased our house yet, so it was apartment living for the IT guy and me. 2 houses and a new location later – that seems like such a life time ago! WOW…the memories flooding back in my mind (some frightening!)

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erin - April 21, 2009 - 1:25 pm

Wow – 1994, haven’t thought about that in a while. I was a sophomore/junior in high school (depending on the time of year). I turned 16 that year but didn’t get my license until the next year. That summer my parents’ marriage fell apart and my dad moved out a week before Christmas that year. Funny, even with all that chaos I do not look back on 1994 as a “bad” year.

I remember Kurt Cobain dying, a girl in one of my classes missed a day or two of school because she was so broken up about it. I thought that was weird. I remember that was the year that ER debuted also and we were all addicted to it… oooh that Noah Wyle! Forget George Clooney, he was too old for us, but Noah Wyle – swoon! ;)

Thanks for the little trip down memory lane!

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Jenny - April 21, 2009 - 3:10 pm

If it was April 1994, I was in the 8th grade. I was probably preparing for Confirmation. It was also the year that I went from my tiny class of 29 at a small Catholic School to a public high school. Talk about shell-shocked! :)

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Briony - April 21, 2009 - 4:52 pm

wow this sounds like an exciting adventure!!! i can’t wait to hear more :) i was 11 in 1994, i would have been in 5th grade.

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Alzo - April 22, 2009 - 4:55 am

In 1994 I was working in the same job I have now. Shows how boring I am.

I love your curly hair and the photos. You were (and are) so beautiful. Your mission must have been a great adventure. I’m sure there were difficult times, though. Can’t wait to hear how you overcame the challenges.

Madison - April 22, 2009 - 4:26 pm

I was starting kindergarten.

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sparkly_jules - April 22, 2009 - 7:13 pm

Well, aside from the fact that you looked seriously underfed (! :-D ), I LOVE your curly hair–it looked wonderful on you!! I had a perm like that, and I loved it.

But anyway…in 1994 I lived through the Northridge Earthquake (4 miles from the epicenter); a move to Riverside, CA, the smog capital of California, for a job so stressful that six months later during a meeting I stood up and quit, picked up my purse and went home.

Then I moved to Monrovia (near Pasadena, CA), and went back to college. Best thing I’ve ever done.

Man. I can’t believe that was fifteen years ago. Sheesh. Time flies.

Jules

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kriss - April 24, 2009 - 4:51 am

The first part of 1994 I was a junior in highschool, second semester. I had met a guy at homecoming (fall of 1993) that I thought was so nice and cute but he was a senior. I would see him in the hall ways and wish he knew I was alive. LOL. I never mentioned to my best friend (who was also my neighbor behind my house) I liked him because all the guys I liked would be my friend to get to date her. Well, in April of 1994, my friend asked me to go to a play with her and unknown to me she had also asked this particular guy. When she came to pick me up she had her boyfriend with her and I was confused as I thought it was going to be just her and I. When we got to the play there was “R” waiting in the front and my friend pushed me over towards him and introduced us. She had set me up on a blind date. I thought I was going to throw up because I had dreamed and wished for him to notice me for over six months!!! We ended up going to the play and then rollar skating afterwards. He even took me home that night and we had great converastion in the car. When I got home I called my friend and asked her how she knew I had liked “R” and she said he was in a chemistry class and she thought he was my type. “R” called the next day and asked me out to a bouquet and we have been together ever since. We dated for five years (through college) and then got married in 1998. We have been married eleven years and we have three adopted children after a long battle with infertilty. He is my everything and still to this day, I can’t believe I ended up with the guy I sat next to at homecoming and dreamed would ask me out! LOL!!! Sorry for such a long story but that is what I was doing in 1994!

Sam - April 24, 2009 - 9:29 am

I was a junior in high school and very much a band geek. So, I imagine in April, I was in the middle of spring competition season, playing my flute or bells. Swim season probably just ended so I must have been happy to be rid of the constant chlorine smell. I probably thought I was too cool driving around in my rusty, brown ’81 Honda Civic hatchback. I often took care of my little brothers, driving them to and from daycare. I was probably also worried about my class rank and how I was going to find money for college.

Thanks for the fun trip down memory lane. I find it very interesting to learn more about your religion through your personal experiences.

Natasha - April 25, 2009 - 6:16 pm

Reminds me of my mission (though I didn’t serve on Temple Square). In 1994 I was 13 and in 7th grade. Don’t really remember much about that time except for how much homework I had every night!

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